Macroscopic simulations of non-convex minimisation problems with enforced microstructures encounter oscillations on finest length scales – too fine to be fully resolved. The numerical analysis must rely on an essentially equivalent relaxed mathematical model. The paper addresses a prototype example, the scalar 2-well minimisation problem and its convexification and introduces a benchmark problem with a known (generalised) solution. For this benchmark, the stress error is studied empirically to asses the performance of adaptive finite element methods for the relaxed and the original minimisation problem. Despite the theoretical reliability-efficiency gap for the relaxed problem, numerical evidence supports that adaptive mesh-refining algorithms generate efficient triangulations and improve the experimental convergence rates optimally. Moreover, the averaging error estimators perform surprisingly accurate.